Tag Archives: letting go

Relationship Coaching

By Shel | Published: November 28, 2005
Perhaps the most famous face to face coach, (some would say “in your face”), confronting high conflict couples and families is Dr. Phil. Many arrive to the first few coaching sessions with a report of a breakdown in ability to communicate, and a…
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Changing the Culture of Divorce: A Review

By Shel | Published: November 24, 2005
Following Jung, who said “There is not birth of consciousness without pain, she reminded us that suffering, loss, and death can lead to rebirth? At one of the later convention workshops on Advocacy versus Empathy, reference was made to “the initial trauma…
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The 4 F Model of Divorce

By Shel | Published: November 14, 2005

Here is a useful model for the divorce coach team member who is facilitating a 5-way meeting in the collaborative law approach to divorce.  This model dovetails with a set of expectations of ideal conduct appropriate for both attorneys as…

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  • “Don't be afraid to give up the good for the great.”

    Kenny Rogers


  • “"Worry is like interest paid in advance on a debt that never comes due."”

    David Mamet


     The Spanish Prisoner
  • “You have to do your own growing no matter how tall your grandfather was.”

    Abraham Lincoln


  • Shel J. Miller, Ph.D.

    About Shel
    I build relationships - relationships that restore joy and meaning. My clients and I focus on their relationship strengths, on what's strong rather than what's wrong. I am a psychologist coach capable of effective, efficient transforming of conflict whether it emerged from the bedroom or the boardroom. Thus I offer executive, family, marriage and divorce coaching in order to provide solutions to personal or business conflicts.