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Relationship Coaching

By Shel | Published: November 28, 2005
Perhaps the most famous face to face coach, (some would say “in your face”), confronting high conflict couples and families is Dr. Phil. Many arrive to the first few coaching sessions with a report of a breakdown in ability to communicate, and a…
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The 4 F Model of Divorce

By Shel | Published: November 14, 2005

Here is a useful model for the divorce coach team member who is facilitating a 5-way meeting in the collaborative law approach to divorce.  This model dovetails with a set of expectations of ideal conduct appropriate for both attorneys as…

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  • “You have to do your own growing no matter how tall your grandfather was.”

    Abraham Lincoln


  • “It’s a lot easier to put out a fire which has already been prevented.”

    Arthur Bradford


  • “Treat people as if they were what they ought to be, and you help them to become what they are capable of being.”

    Johann Wolfgang von Goethe


  • Shel J. Miller, Ph.D.

    About Shel
    I build relationships - relationships that restore joy and meaning. My clients and I focus on their relationship strengths, on what's strong rather than what's wrong. I am a psychologist coach capable of effective, efficient transforming of conflict whether it emerged from the bedroom or the boardroom. Thus I offer executive, family, marriage and divorce coaching in order to provide solutions to personal or business conflicts.