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Musings: Why I love what I do

Solving objective math problems back in junior high school was so much fun. It was about the relationships of one set of numbers to others. Now I am enjoying solving subjective, people puzzles or human instead of number relationships.

In…

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Words Matter

Consider the effect that your words have on others:

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Pulling Together: Geese in V Formation

 

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AL Pacino gives a speech to his team

 

In this excerpt from Any Given Sunday, Al Pacino gives a speech

to his team before their last game. What he says also applies to couples and

families who need to pull together as a team to create or…

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“Identifying Your Unique Talents and Values”.

Today at noon I conduct my first webinar for the Brown Alumni Association’s Executive/Career Coach Webinar series. My title is “Identifying Your Unique Talents and Values”. I look forward to offering this presentation at other venues in the near future.

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Unique Talents, Strengths, and Values

We talk about unique talents, strengths and values. We rave about following our dreams and passions.

But how many of us really know who we are? How many of us have actually stopped to create a vision, a guiding light…

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TED talk about awesome

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Bashbat Advertising Dep.

For your daily dose of amazing, quirky, great, inventive, ingenious and simply awesome advertising.

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  • (editor’s note: I have actually seen these hanging around The Netherlands and they are quite impressive.) “I wish we never had children. What you say during divorce lasts forever.” Advertising Agency: 180 Amsterdam, NetherlandsExecutive Creative Director: Andy FackrellCopywriters: Marianne Riphagen, Jessica HartleyArt Director: Andy FackrellSenior TV Producer: Chayenne de WittePrint Producer / Art buyer: Maren HermansSenior Digital Producer: Anna StolyarovaAccount Manager: Jessica HartleyPlanner: Simon NeateDigital Planner: Mandy GrahamPost Print Producer: Marlon LeeRetoucher: Jan-Willem DijkstraHead of Studio: Mark KennyGraphic Designer: Markus SabatlikProject Manager: Anne-Marie van OverveldDigital Art Directors: Nadege DeCastro, Matthew SteenburgDigital Producer: Colin PueschnerUser Experience Director: Jonathan ConatyDigital Copywriters: Jessica Hartley, Marianne RiphagenDigital Copywriter: Sophie TopBusiness Affairs Directors: Chris Barrand, Emilie Douque, Justine Young

    (editor’s note: I have actually seen these hanging around

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    A Bowen family systems coach in Collaborative Divorce Practice

     

    This article highlights the approach of Woody Mosten in Collaborative Law interdisciplinary Training re emotional outbursts. He demonstrates client self-soothing. And he reframes the highly laden emotional issue into an agenda item thereby pointing to next possible steps. The…

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    How to Be Alone

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    Divorce Happens Video

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    The Human Costs and Benefit of Separation

    Let’s start with the known costs of failure born of the macho mindset. Then we will seek the main benefit of suddenly having to face family law issues. In the 1993 book, Man Enough, Frank Pittman explained the costs…

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    Avoid the Holiday Blues

    I hope you are all taking the opportunity to enjoy your family and social connections now that you are half way through the year end holidays. This is a fine time to show your family how much you appreciate them…

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    • “Logic can convince but only emotion can motivate.”

      Jonathan Alter


    • “"Many people bear adversity, very few contempt"”

      Diana Mercer


    • “Worry is like interest paid in advance on a debt that never comes due.”

      David Mamet


       The Spanish Prisoner
    • Shel J. Miller, Ph.D.

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      I build relationships - relationships that restore joy and meaning. My clients and I focus on their relationship strengths, on what's strong rather than what's wrong. I am a psychologist coach capable of effective, efficient transforming of conflict whether it emerged from the bedroom or the boardroom. Thus I offer executive, family, marriage and divorce coaching in order to provide solutions to personal or business conflicts.

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