To develop these positive moods, one of the highest priorities is creating clear boundary marking. Eliminate chronic struggles over rule making, limit setting and the division of labor. The servant leader needs to be a giver but he/she also really …
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Relationship Coaching
Perhaps the most famous face to face coach, (some would say “in your face”), confronting high conflict couples and families is Dr. Phil. Many arrive to the first few coaching sessions with a report of a breakdown in ability to …
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Changing the Culture of Divorce: A Review
Following Jung, who said “There is not birth of consciousness without pain, she reminded us that suffering, loss, and death can lead to rebirth? At one of the later convention workshops on Advocacy versus Empathy, reference was made to “the …
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The 4 F Model of Divorce
Here is a useful model for the divorce coach team member who is facilitating a 5-way meeting in the collaborative law approach to divorce. This model dovetails with a set of expectations of ideal conduct appropriate for both attorneys as …
The Holidays
My coaching clients come in or should come in to develop more confidence when facing life’s milestone events. They come at those moments of pain, perhaps when planning a a family holiday reunion, a wedding, a graduation, confirmation, anniversary, or …
Divorce Coaching
MY MISSION:
To lift spirits by restoring hope and peace in families struggling with conflict.
This brochure defines the nature and benefits of Divorce Coaching.
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Staying Committed: Part 2