Shel Miller, Ph.D.

Shel Miller, Ph.D.

Boston area Psychologist & Coach building relationships with creative approaches to conflict resolution

Services

In short, I solve people puzzles. I negotiate sustained working relationships that are relaxed and struggle free. I turnaround all kinds of partnerships so that co-workers and children of all ages smile again and feel...

Marriage

In addition to working As a Marriage Counselor, As Child Specialist or Parenting Coach (I can team with your divorce attorney), As a divorce coach to save your dignity and reduce your legal fees As...

Executives

It is our belief that highly successful executive leadership flourishes best when one enjoys a bedrock of happiness in one’s personal or family life. Anecdotal reports abound of the link between productivity and successful marriages...

Resources

Articles Here you will find many articles and white papers I have written and made available for download as a PDF document.  This includes essays, editorial pieces, and reviews that I've written in recent years....

Description

The Boston area Psychologist and Executive Coach
dedicated to solving people problems
by enhancing mindfulness and compassion
by building more effective relationships
at home, at work, and with your Self.

To Thine Own Self Be True – Harriet Lerner

Our Conversations invent us. Through our speech and our silence, we become smaller or larger selves. Through our speech and our silence we diminish or enhance the other person, and we narrow or expand the possibilities between us. How we use our voice determines the quality of our relationships, who …

On Being Authentic Soul Mates

Authentic soul mates hear the fears and honor the tears both inside oneself and on the face and in the heart of significant others. They let go of rage both inside and on the faces and in the heart of significant others. They hear what’s near and honor the joy …

Seminar on Divorce

Are you trying to protect your children from the stress of separation or divorce? The Metro West Practice Group of the Massachusetts Collaborative Law Council, Inc. wants to help. Please come to our October 3rd Open House from 7:00 to 8:45 p.m. at the Watertown Library at 123 Main Street …

3 reasons for Infidelity

There are personal, interpersonal and societal contexts for infidelity. In the midst of breaking a promise to one’s partner – and infidelity is just that — one is not reflecting much. Anger may be a driver, vaguely registered, since a recent fight unresolved seems like a good excuse to justify …

Musings: Why I love what I do

Solving objective math problems back in junior high school was so much fun. It was about the relationships of one set of numbers to others. Now I am enjoying solving subjective, people puzzles or human instead of number relationships. In my huge junior high there were future doctors, lawyers and …

Bashbat Advertising Dep. For your daily dose of amazing, quirky, great, inventive, ingenious and simply awesome advertising. 10th JunFri (editor’s note: I have actually seen these hanging around The Netherlands and they are quite impressive.) “I wish we never had children. What you say during divorce lasts forever.” Advertising Agency: …

Avoid the Holiday Blues

I hope you are all taking the opportunity to enjoy your family and social connections now that you are half way through the year end holidays. This is a fine time to show your family how much you appreciate them no matter how they behave. You are who you are …